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Love Quotes

Joyce Carol Oates said that "in love there are only two things: bodies and words."  At our wedding we focused on the words.  Below you will find the 160 or so quotes about love we collected to highlight on votive candles sitting here, there, and everywhere in the reception areas.  Guests were invited to find their favorites and take them home.  We had a lot of fun and conversation finding and choosing the quotes we felt best expressed our thoughts about love, from the distilled words of e.e. cummings to the humor of people like Lily Tomlin, from funny comments about sex to assertions in the feminist vein, as well as quotes about familiarity, beauty, and what to do when things don't go right, even one of our own golden lines. 


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I hate and I love.

Why I do so, perhaps you ask.

I know not, but I feel it and

I am in torment.
Gaius Valerius Catullus



Love conquers all things;

let us too surrender

to Love.
Virgil


Love knows nothing

of order.
Saint Jerome


The eyes

those silent tongues

of Love.
Miguel de Cervantes


But true love is a durable fire,

In the mind ever burning,

Never sick, never old,

never dead,

From itself never turning.
Sir Walter Ralegh


Love comforteth
like sunshine after rain.
William Shakespeare



Love looks not with the eyes,
but with the mind,

And therefore is wing'd

Cupid painted blind.
William Shakespeare


Doubt thou the stars are fire;

Doubt that the sun doth move;

Doubt truth to be a liar;

But never doubt I love.
William Shakespeare


The summer hath his joys,

And winter his delights;

Though love and all his
pleasures are but toys,

They shorten tedious nights.
Thomas Campion


No cord nor cable
can so forcibly draw,
or hold so fast,
as love can do
with a twined thread.   
 
Robert Burton


What is a kiss?

Why this, as some approve:

The sure, sweet cement,
glue, and lime of love.
     
Robert Herrick


Love,

and a cough,

cannot be hid.
George Herbert


There is no disguise
which can for long
conceal love where it exists
or simulate it
where it does not.
François, Duc de La Rochefoucauld


True love is like ghosts,
which everybody talks
about and few have seen.

François, Duc de La Rochefoucauld


Pains of love

be sweeter far

Than all other

pleasures are.
John Dryden


Love to faults is always blind,

Always is to joy inclin'd,

Lawless, wing'd, and unconfin'd,

And breaks all chains

from every mind.
William Blake


Love seeketh not itself to please,
Nor for itself hath any care,

But for another gives its ease,

And builds a Heaven

in Hell's despair.
William Blake


Familiar acts are beautiful
through love.

Percy Bysshe Shelley


A friend may well be reckoned
the masterpiece of Nature.

Ralph Waldo Emerson


Our chief want in life
is somebody who shall make us
do what we can.

Ralph Waldo Emerson


No human creature can give
orders to love.

George Sand


There is only
one happiness in life,
to love and be loved.

George Sand


That Love is all there is,

Is all we know of Love;

It is enough,

the freight should be

Proportioned to the groove.
Emily Dickinson


For in my mind,

of all mankind

I love but you alone.
Anonymous, The Nut-Brown Maid


A supreme love…is not to be
had where and how

she wills.
George Eliott


I know of only one duty,

and that is to love.
Albert Camus


Love is indescribable
and unconditional. I could tell you
a thousand things that it is not,
but not one that it is.

Duke Ellington


Love can deny naught

to love.
Th. Van de Velde


I'll be damned if I'll love
just to love -- there's got
to be more to it than that.

spoken by Humphrey Bogart in Casablanca


Life has taught us
that love does not consist
in gazing at each other
but in looking outward together
in the same direction.

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry


I never knew how

to worship until I knew

how to love.
Henry Ward Beecher


Tell me whom you love
and I will tell you who you are.

Houssaye


To love another person is to see
the face of God.

from Les Miserables


There is no excellent beauty
that hath not some strangeness
in the proportion.
Francis Bacon


Bed is the poor man's opera.
Italian proverb


I like my body
when it is with your body….
e.e. cummings


Love is but the discovery
of ourselves in others, and the delight
in the recognition.

Alexander Smith


The richest love is that which
submits to the arbitration of time.

Lawrence Durrell


To love and win is the best thing.
To love and lose, the next best.
William Thackeray


Within you I lose myself
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again.
Unknown


If you judge people,
you have no time to love them.
Mother Teresa


Truly loving another

means letting go of all expectations.
Karen Casey


Morning without you
is dwindled dawn.
Emily Dickinson


Your absence has not taught me
how to be alone, it merely has shown
that when together
we cast a single shadow….
Doug Fetherling


Love is a great beautifier.
Louisa May Alcott


Our hours in love have wings; 
in absence, crutches.
Colley Cibber


Be mysterious.
Advice given by John Bouvier to his daughter, Jacqueline (Kennedy Onassis)


To me, fair friend,

you never can be old

For as you were when

first your eye I eyed

Such seems your beauty still.
William Shakespeare


Love built on beauty,
soon as beauty, dies.
John Donne


The glances over cocktails
That seemed so sweet;
Don't seem quite so amorous
Over shredded wheat.
Benny Fields

 

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
Peter Ustinov


Love is
the tact of every good,
The only warmth,
the only peace.
Delmore Schwartz


Love is form, and cannot be without important substance.
Charles Olsen


Love is the answer,
but while you're waiting
for the answer
sex raises some pretty good questions.
Woody Allen


Love doesn't make the world go 'round. 
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
Franklin P. Jones


Love is a mystery which, when solved, evaporates.
Ned Roren


Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
Robert Frost


Love is two minutes
fifty-two seconds
of squishing noises.
Johnny Rotten


Love is a sour delight, a sugur'd grief,
a living death, an ever-dying life.
Thomas Watson


Love is my religion -- I could die for it.
John Keats


Sex is a shortcut to everything.
Anna Cummings


Anatomy is not destiny.
Simone de Beauvoir


Come to me in my dreams, and then
By day I shall be well again.
For then the night will be more than
The hopeless longing of day.
Matthew Arnold


In time the Rockies may crumble
Gibraltar may tumble
(They're only made of clay)
But our love is here to stay.
Ira Gershwin

Imparudis'd
in one another's arms.
John Milton


Embrace me
My sweet embraceable you.
Embrace me
You irreplaceable you.
Ira Gershwin


A positive engagement
to marry a certain person
at a certain time…I have always
considered the most
ridiculous thing on earth.
Jane Welsh Carlyle


Bind the sea to slumber still,
Bind its odor to the lily,
Bind the aspen ne'er to quiver,
Then bind love to last for ever.
Thomas Campbell


No, the heart that truly loved
never forgets,
But as truly
loves on to the close.
Thomas Moore


But love would not be love
if it did not slip over
into the excessive.
Edna O'Brien


We boil at different degrees.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


If love is the answer, could you
rephrase the question?
Lily Tomlin


I love you.
You love me.
We're a happy family.
Barney


When she raises her eyelids it's as if she were taking off all her clothes.
Colette


Drink to me only with thine eyes
And I will pledge with mine;
Or leave a kiss but in the cup
And I'll not look for wine.
Ben Jonson


One doesn't fall in love;  one grows into love, and love grows in him.
Karl Menninger


Falling in love consists merely in uncorking the imagination
and bottling the common-sense.
Helen Rowland


I like familiarity.  In me it does not breed contempt.  Only more familiarity.
Gertrude Stein


I'm so full.  let's go home and lie down.
Darryn Bouknight


We always believe our first love to be our last, and our last love our first.
George John Whyte-Melville


I took one look at you
That's all I meant to do
And my heart stood  still.
Lorenz Hart


No never forget!…Never forget any moment;  they are too few.
Elizabeth Bowen


Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast.
Marlene Dietrich


Love must be learned,
and learned again and again.
Katherine Anne Porter


The heart has its reasons,
which reason does not know.
Pascal


Nobody has ever measured,
not even poets, how much
the heart can hold.
Zelda Fitzgerald


The lover who has not felt
the hot tears rise at the sight
of some slight, infinitely poignant
imperfection in the body of the beloved,
has never loved.
Mervyn Levy


The eyes start love: 
intimacy perfects it.
Publilius Syrus


There is only only one kind of love,
but there are a thousand different imitations of it.
François, Duc de La Rochefoucald


Love must be reinvented.
Arthur Rimbaud


Intimacy is a difficult art.
Virginia Woolf


True love comes quietly,
without banners or flashing lights. 
If you hear bells, get your ears checked.
Erich Segal


Immature love says:  "I love you because I need you."  Mature love says:  "I need you because I love you."
Erich Fromm


The love of the older and disciplined
heart is as coals: 
deep-burning, unquenchable.
Henry Ward Beecher


He kissed me and now I am somebody else.
Gabriella Mistral


You have to kiss an awful lot of frogs before you find a prince.
Graffito


I like kissing
this and that of you…
e.e. cummings


Come live with me
and be my love.
And we will all the pleasures prove.
Christopher Marlowe


If you are afraid of loneliness,
do not marry.
Anton Chekov


Love is made by two people,
in different kinds of solitude.
José-Pierre Louis Aragon


But when he's gone
Me and the lonesome blues collide
The bed's too big
The frying pan is too wide.
Joni Mitchell


When you really want to love
you will find it
waiting for you.
Oscar Wilde


if the soul
is to know itself
it must look
into a soul
George Seferis


Anyone who is repelled
by his sweetheart's farts
has no business talking about love.
Gunther Grass


Night and day,
you are the one.
Cole Porter


If you do not love me
I shall not be loved
If I do not love you
I shall not love
Samuel Beckett

Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
Ursala Le Guin


If you be loved,
be worthy of love.
Ovid


I loved him
for himself alone.
Richard Brinsley Sheridan


Love does not brook neglect.
Menander


No one has ever loved anyone the way everyone wants to be loved.
Mignon McLaughlin


Real love is a pilgrimage.  It happens when there is no strategy, but it is very rare because most people are strategists.
Anita Brookner


You can give without loving,
but you cannot love without giving.
Ami Carmichael


Love consists of this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
Rainer Maria Rilke


If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love's sake only.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning


Money can't buy love --
but it certainly puts you in a
wonderful bargaining position.
Harrison Baker


At the touch of love
everyone becomes a poet.
Plato


Love makes me write
what shame forbids me  speak.
Robert Herrick


They [lovers] read every word three ways;  they read between the lines and in the margins…They even take punctuation into account.
Mortimer J. Adler


You are the very one I've searched for
In many lands in every weather.
Heinrich Heine


And forget the He and She.
John Donne


A man has no business
to marry a woman
who can't make him miserable. 
It means she can't make him happy.
Anonymous


A good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian
of his solitude.
Rainer Maria Rilke


I love being married. 
It's so great to find that one special
person you want to annoy
for the rest of your life.
Rita Rudner


Lovers remember everything.
Ovid


When beauty fires the blood,
how love exalts the mind.
John Dryden


And love's the noblest frailty of the mind.
John Dryden


There are no chaste minds. 
Minds copulate wherever they meet.
Eric Hoffer


The body of someone we love
is not altogether naked,
but is clothed and framed
in our feelings.
Anatole Boyard


In real love you want
the other person's good. 
In romantic love
you want the other person.
Margaret Anderson


Tenderness is
the repose of passion.
Joseph Joulet


No one worth possessing
Can be quite possessed.
Sara Teasdale


Where love rules
there is no will to power; 
and where power predominates,
there love is lacking.  The one is the
shadow of the other.
Carl Gustav Jung


No act is so private
it does not seek applause. 
John Updike


Let us form, as Freud has said,
a group of two
You are the best thing
this world can offer.
Randall Jarrell


Many things are lost for want of asking.
George Herbert


Never go to bed mad. 
Stay up and fight.
Phyllis Diller


Tell me, you who know, what is this thing called love?
Lorenzo Da Ponte


Is sex necessary?
James Thurber and E.B. White


Can I ever know you
or you know me?
Sara Teasdale


I become
through my relation to the Thou; 
as I become I, I say Thou. 
All real living is meeting.
Martin Buber


Nothing spoils a romance
so much as a sense of humor
in a woman.
Oscar Wilde


We stop loving ourselves
when no one loves us.
Mme. De Staël


The beginning, middle,
and end of love is --
a sigh.
Arnold Haultain


I said, Baby! Baby!
Please don't snore so loud…
You jest a little bit o' woman, baby
Sound like a great big crowd.
Langston Hughes


Speak low, if you
speak of love.
William Shakespeare


To speak of love
is to make love.
Honoré de Balzac


Those that love the most speak least.
George Pettie


Whom we love best,
to them we can say the least.
John Ray


For God's sake hold your tongue,
and let me love.
John Donne


He loves but little who
Can say and count in words,
how much he loves.
Dante Alighieri


I wouldn't be too ladylike in love
if I were you.
Alan Patrick Herbert


Let there be spaces
in your togetherness. 
  
Kahlil Gibran


My God, who wouldn't
want a wife?    
Judy Syfers


Don't expect a wife to help you
or hinder you. 
Don't expect anything. 
That is the golden rule of marriage.
Robertson Davies


Meek wifehood is no part
of my profession;  I am your friend,
but never your possession.
Vera Brittain


Love is not
the dying moan of a distant violin; 
it's the triumphant twang
of a bedspring.
S.J. Perelman


The woman one loves
always smells good.
Remy de Gourmont


It is well known
that we are susceptible
only to those suggestions
which we are already
secretly in accord.
Carl Gustav Jung


As soon as you cannot
keep anything
from a woman you love her.
Paul Géraldy


Love is an attempt to change
a piece of the dream-world
into reality.
Theodore Reik


In love there are two things: 
bodies and words.
Joyce Carol Oates


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